Chapter 11 explains two philosophers' views on an adult child's duty to parents. Lin Yutang, a Chinese philosopher says that children owe a never-ending debt of gratitude to their children, while Jane English, an American philosopher, says that the parent-child relationship should be based on friendship: a parent's need and the child's willingness or ability to help.
- Which parent-child relationship does your family follow? Give an example of what they say or do.
- Do you subscribe to the same philosophy as your family? Are you or will you be different with your own children?
- What conflicts naturally exist within each philosophy?