Friendships and bullies
Bullying and suicide: Think about it. (2014). In Films On Demand. Films Media Group.
Part 1: Discuss the development and role of friendships in elementary schools.
Part 2: What is meant by bullying and what are the long-term consequences of bullying? Do you think bullying is an issue at the elementary school level or not until later years? Do you think schools do enough to prevent it? Why or why not?
Part 3: Find one local school district’s policy on bullying. Do you feel it is adequate and clear on what they define as bullying and how discipline will or won’t be used? Do they address “online bullying” and if they do how so? (do it on William Floyd in Mastic Beach)
Sample Answer
Part 1: Development and Role of Friendships in Elementary Schools
In elementary school, friendships play a crucial role in a child’s social, emotional, and cognitive development. Here’s a breakdown:
- Development:
- Early elementary (kindergarten to 2nd grade) friendships are often based on proximity and shared activities. Children at this stage may have fluid friendships, easily moving from one playmate to another.
- Middle elementary (3rd to 5th grade) sees the development of more stable and selective friendships. Children begin to value loyalty, trust, and shared interests. They start to understand the concept of reciprocal relationships.
- Friendships in elementary school help children develop social skills like cooperation, communication, and conflict resolution.
- Role:
- Social Support: Friends provide emotional support, reducing feelings of loneliness and isolation. They offer a sense of belonging and acceptance.
- Emotional Development: Friendships help children learn to manage their emotions, develop empathy, and understand different perspectives.